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It needn’t always be a lavish dinner or a shopping spree. Nor is it always about chocolate and flowers. There are easier ways to show her you care. If you want to spend time with her in bed, you should have the right attitude. Soon, she’ll be melting in your arms. Pick up the little gestures and techniques that will get her aroused all the way…

TO BEGIN WITH

Unlike you, your girl needs more time to get aroused. Before the act, give her 15-20 minutes. Remember it’s a physiological necessity for her. She hasn’t created it to make it tougher on you. And, if she’s comfortable, she’ll want to experiment.

Hot Tip: Think of foreplay not as a chore but as a prelude to better things.

THE EXTERNAL FACTORS

To turn her on, switch off your mobile. That ‘tring-tring’ of the phone can be a major interruption, as much as the glaring lights. Dim the lights, put on some soothing and romantic music. Be genuinely caring to all that your girl needs.

Hot Tip: Playing your girl’s favourite song in the background works wonders.

IT’S ALL IN WORDS

If your woman is not expecting it, perhaps carrying her into the bedroom is a good idea. Hug her from behind as she stands in front of the mirror. Talk to her. No, not grocery bills and office woes but about something ****. Tell her what you like about her, how she turns you on… Whisper sweet nothings into her ear. Tell her what you want to do to her. Think guy.

Hot Tip: Romantic poetry and shayari are always hits.

CARE TO CARESS

Stroke her hair. Run your fingers over her eyelids, ears, lips. Don’t forget you can arouse her just by the way you look at her. Let your eyes convey the message that she’s sexy, that you want her.

Hot Tip: We trust the dexterity of your fingers, but a satin kerchief or feather can add some superb textural delights.

THE (UN)DRESS CODE

For maximum effect, do this in parts. Uncovering everything at one go is a big no. Respect her when she says ‘not now’ or ‘a little later’. If the two of you are not yet too comfortable with each other, ask for her permission. Your courteousness will make her more easy. A little pleading always does the trick. Whatever you do, don’t forget to caress and cuddle.

Hot Tip: Undressing her as you kiss her needs some finesse. Clumsiness can be a big turn-off.

ALL SET TO GO

Remember to use your body parts well. Your hands have tough fingernails, soft fingertips, your eyelashes can tickle, stroke. All these things produce unexpected sensations that can lead your partner to think, ‘Hey, we should do this more often,’.

Hot Tip: Keep it mushy. Keep appealing to her senses and give her time.